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Thursday
Guys,under what circumstances will you send your girlfren (or any lady of interest)home? And will you text/call to check if they're safely home? Do you see it as something that you do willingly or something that is obligatory?
Someone said " seeing a lady off is a gentleman act". I agree to that. Seeing someone off indeed is a very nice and warm gesture, but that's just a gesture and it should not be enforced/imposed/obligatory. Even more so if this gesture is at the expense of missing their own transportation/being late for some other appointments etc. However, its still a nice warm gesture that will be appreciated. And it should be self initiated and not solicited.
Anyhow,I'll only show such gestures to people whom I want to spend more time with, someone whom I would like to shower such affection on. But of course, if people don't appreciate or shows no reciprocity, then its not worth continuing. Otherwise, I won't. Thank god I'm a lady, not a man.
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Home wise, its chaos. Jovy is not adapting well to the new flat, perpetually barking and screaming for attention. As the chinese saying goes " gou4 ji2 tiao4 qiang2", Jovy has mastered her high jump skills without even needing a run-up. She's now jumping out of her cage, over barriers,almost effortlessly. And that's trouble for us. We've had 2 difficult nights calming her down, I'm praying hard she'll learn to be a good dog...soon.
1/05/2006|0comments [speak] 